Welcoming Wyatt

We welcomed Wyatt Dee Brewer into our lives Sat, July 7, 2012 at 11:01 AM.  He weighed 8lbs 1oz and was 20 in long.

Backing up a bit.....
When I started my weekly doctor visits one month before he was born I was already 1.5cm dilated & 75% effaced.  The doctor guessed I prob wouldn't make it to his due date and he could possibly come one maybe two weeks early.  Needless to say the next 3 weeks I was at a complete stand still and had not progressed even the slightest.  My doctor told me there really wasn't any need to come in for an appt the last week b/c we were set up to induce that Sat and unless I had any contractions or something changed the plan was to just see her on Sat to induce.

Last week of being pregnant....
My last week of my pregnancy was nothing out of the ordinary.  It was the week of July 4th.  I worked a normal week except I had taken Friday off to make sure all last minute things were done in order to prepare for Wyatt.  I had not had any contractions or felt any different than any other day of my pregnancy. So I assumed we would just be inducing as scheduled on Sat and Wyatt would not be making an early debut.  Friday rolls around and everything changes.....

So it begins....
I woke up Friday morning around 4:30am to go to the restroom for about the 4th time, this was normal at this point.  I think I peed more than I would sleep.  Anyway,  some changes happened when I went to the restroom, just like with Loralei except my labor did not immediately follow this time.  Many people can lose their plug towards the end of their pregnancy and go weeks before going into labor or sometimes it begins labor.  I was a bit nervous all day b/c I was home by myself with Loralei most of the day.  The plan was for me to spend some one on one time with just me and her on that last day, take her to my Aunt that afternoon to keep her while we were in the hospital and we wouldn't have to get her up at the crack of dawn Sat before heading to the hospital.  About 2:00 the hospital called and told me to not come in at 6:30 but to wait on their phone call instead.  They were so full they had to wait on some patients to be discharged before they would have somewhere to put me and it would probably be around lunch time.  I was fine with this.  I completely understood and and was glad they called instead of getting there early and waiting like sitting ducks.  My Aunt went ahead and took Loralei that afternoon so I could rest up.  Chuck and I had talked about going to dinner and having a date since it was just us Friday evening but after Chuck got home I began feeling "crampy" and having small irregular contractions around 4:30pm.  So we opted to get Ruby Tuesday take out and watched a movie at home.  As the movie progressed my contractions became stronger and more regular.  I began timing the contractions at 8:50pm and for the next hour they were every 10 min apart.  I called the on call doctor around 9:50 to see if I needed to go ahead and come in since they were getting closer and regular pattern plus we live about 35 minutes away from the hospital.  He told me I was welcome to come on and they could check me but he basically suggested waiting until they were closer together.  So i decided I was going to try and wait it out a bit.  However, by 10:15 my contractions jumped to 5 minutes apart.  I told Chuck let's go......

Go Time.....
I called the hospital to let them know we were on our way b/c I knew from the earlier phone call in the day they were limited on space.  We arrived there around 11:30pm.  They first put me in a very small room just so they could hook me up to monitor me until they could clear out a larger room.  Around 12:30 they put me in a triage room where I would stay until I delivered and someone discharged on Sat.  Now remember, we were set up to induce on Sat anyway. Wyatt, just like his sister, had other plans.  Basically, you give me an induce date and my babies WILL be born on it but in THEIR time.  My doctor was not scheduled to come in until 7am so the on call decided he was not going to break my water or begin labor but instead keep allowing things to progress naturally and  let my doctor deliver Wyatt.
At 2:30 am I had reached 4 cm and got an epidural.  I had still never slept at all Friday night and anxiously waited for Saturday....
My doctor finally came in at 7am and broke my water and a little after that they gave me some pitocin to get things moving along.  By 10am I had reached 8cm and they were preparing for me to start pushing.  Dr Myers came in and I pushed for 20 min and Wyatt was HERE!

Welcome Wyatt.....
Wyatt looked so puffy and Dr Myers and the nurses were guessing he was around a 9lb baby and they weighed him and his was only 8 (THANK GOODNESS).  I was so glad Dr Myers was able to deliver Wyatt.  Loralei came so early in the morning that the on call delivered her.  So I was glad to have at least one of my babies delivered by my doctor because I absolutely love her!  I also have to say that in both my experiences I have been blessed with amazing nurses!   Laurie was assigned to me when I check in at the hospital but her shift ended Sat am and was not able to meet Wyatt. However, she was such good company and so sweet. Then there was Patsy.  The labor & delivery unit was so swamped yet she made us feel like we were her only patient and made sure we were assigned to a wonderful nurse. Enter Haley...she was my assigned nurse and she was able to stay with us all weekend.  I can't say enough good things about Haley.  It's so nice when you feel so comfortable around your nurse that it's like having one of your close friends taking care of you.  So, to Patsy, Laurie & Haley, thank you for being such a blessing and so wonderful.  We're so grateful to have shared such a precious time in our lives in such good care.

What a blessing.... 3 John 1:4
Wyatt is so perfect, healthy & just beautiful.  I am well aware of how the conception, pregnancy & birth of a healthy baby is nothing short of a miracle.  For whatever reason God has given us this blessing twice now.  Something that made Wyatt's birth a little more special was a surprise visit from our Pastor, Bro Jack  Clary of Evergreen Baptist Church.  We were in the middle of searching for a home church when Loralei was born and have since felt so welcomed and loved by this church family.  Joyce McFerrin notified Pastor Clary and he caught us at the hospital just before we discharged and he prayed with us.  Chuck and I both teared up.  Words can't describe how special this was to us.  One of my favorite Bible verses is 3 John 1:4 - I have NO greater JOY than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.  Chuck and I are not perfect parents and by no means perfect Christians.  However, I pray that we always turn to God to guide us in raising our children and that they know & seek Him.

Letter to Loralei.....

To My Sweet Loralei,

You're one today!  I can't believe a whole year has flown by.  It saddens my heart to think of how fast time has flown.  I have been there for everything & so afraid to miss something yet I feel like I've missed it all.

Before you were born I had always hoped for a boy first.  Mainly b/c I've always thought to myself, "I don't know what to do with a little girl."  I'm not a very girly girl, artsy craftsy & definitely not Martha Stuart by any means.  I remember my mother being ALL of those things.  I adored her. Still to this day family talks of how I was attached to her hip & wouldn't let anyone have anything to do with me, except her. I was a Mommy's girl, no doubt about that one. She was & still is, my hero.  I long to make her proud.  Feeling robbed of a mother/daughter relationship so early in life brought many fears to my heart and at the same time down deep I hoped to eventually share that mother/daughter relationship. But God knew what I NEEDED......

You entered my world.  When you took your first breath I feel like I did as well.  My life was new!  I can't explain the change that took place when you were born.  Somehow, I think you already know how strong my love is for you.  We have a very strong bond.  Knowing how much you love me and watching you express that to me the best way you possibly can is so overwhelming to me.  Sometimes you are even compared to how I was with my mother.  When you want to be loved, nurtured, held.....no one else will do.  You have to have Mommy.  I often respond, "That's ok.  She can be like that all she wants.  I hope she loves me as much as I loved my mom."  Even your first word was "Ma Ma".  Watching you learn how to give kisses & hugs is so sweet.  You can be playing to your hearts content but all of a sudden you'll look at me, crawl over to me, stand up & give me the biggest hug.  Those little arms wrap around my heart every time.  You waller on me like a pig in the mud too!  Even your Daddy can't have anything to do with you at times.  He just watches and will often say, "Gosh, she loves you."   I often wonder why you love me so much though.  I'm not sure what it is that you think is so great about me but I'm so glad you do.

Loralei, you are a beautiful little girl.  You're more than I ever dreamed of.  One of the most important things is you have always been a very healthy baby.   We've been blessed to not have to experience anything more than a fever virus & teething, so far. Everyone says you look like your daddy, except you have my blue eyes, only much much prettier.  You have the biggest most beautiful blue eyes I've ever seen.  The prettiest little blonde curls.  People always comment on how pretty your blue eyes are & where did you get those blonde curls. You have so much personality and make us laugh all the time.  You're so smart. Even when you were a newborn people commented on how observant you seemed to be.  You always seem to be taking EVERYTHING in.  You must get this brain from your daddy too.  You love dogs, mainly Bella.  I always say Bella is your favorite toy.  She can get your giggle box going like nothing else in this world.  You have the funniest little laugh.  I can only describe it as the fakest real laugh I've ever heard.  When you're upset, tired or got a boo boo the only thing that can make it better is Mommy.  You'll cry until I get you & once you're in my arms you immediately stop.  You wrap those little arms around my neck & play with my hair.  You have the biggest heart and so much love to give.

Loralei, being your mother is the proudest part of my existence.  You bring an indescribable joy to my soul.  I find myself praying on a daily basis that God never allows our relationship to be taken prematurely.  Not only do you need me but I need you more than you'll ever know.  You're so amazing and I'm so proud of you.
HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY!!!!

My cup runneth over
I LOVE YOU!
Mommy





                                                          Minutes after she was born

                                                                     1 Day old

                                                                               Finally Home

3 Months 

                6 months                                                                                                         9 months

1 Year

The hearbeat that changed our world....Part 2

Chuck turned the emergency flashers on and got us from Brookwood to Northport Hospital in 20 min!  He ran inside to go get me a wheelchair while I waited in the truck.  When he came back out he said, " I told them my wife is in labor and needs a wheelchair and they wanted to ask if we had been upstairs yet and would need to go there first.  He quickly replied...NO, my wife's in labor I'll be taking her a wheelchair NOW!"  I thought he was sweet for taking care of me but my my response was, "watch me get the nurse you cocked an attitude with & she's going to hate us!"   Chuck wheels me into the hospital & he points out which nurse he got an attitude with & of course, low & behold, wouldn't you know......she was my nurse.  She was young & cute & thank goodness just as sweet as she could be & I just we loved her to death.  She took such good care of me.   They took me into a room and began to assess me.  I just knew with all the pain I had to be AT LEAST 5-6 cm dilated......NOPE....I was only a whole WHOPPING 3!  3?!?!?  Are you kidding me?!?!?!  They gave me something to help with the contractions until the anesthetist could get there to give me an epidural.
My Aunt Darlene had called my Dad & my Aunt Becky to let them know we had gone to the hospital.  My Daddy arrived just as fast as he could.  Poor Fran, my stepmom, couldn't come.  Christmas is one of her busiest seasons for her dog boarding business and she was unable to get away.  At the hospital waiting on this sweet little angel to make her debut were my Daddy, Jacki (Chuck's mom), Aunt Darlene & Becky, & cousins Brittany & Kayla.

 Finally the on call doctor came in to check me and estimated I'd prob deliver around 2:30AM.  When it came time to push my nurses all thought she would deliver so easy b/c she had been so low for so long and was, what seemed to be, ready.  The doctor had gone to get some sleep until it was time to deliver.  When he came back I pushed for about an hour, which none of them thought it would take that long.  He finally sat back and said she is facing sunny side up & hitting bone to bone.  She won't come out like this I need her to be face down.  I thought he was preparing me for possible c-section so I asked what our options were.  He proposed using the vacuum to try turning her first.   I told the doctor I was glad he had glasses b/c I could see her being delivered (minus all the other stuff).   The vacuum was successful and I pushed 3 times and she was here!  She literally came out kicking & screaming.  The monitor they had hooked around my belly allowed you to hear when she kicked.  She was half way out & started crying & then we heard her kicking on the monitor.  He laid that precious baby on me & I lost it.  The transformation that takes place instantaneously upon touch is miraculous.  My heart was no longer mine.  I was a mommy!
Our families anxiously awaited out in the lobby the entire time.  Chuck went to share the good news & they all thought they weren't going to be able to see her so they were going to head home.  They were heading down the hall w/ Chuck & he said, "Ya'll know you can go see her...."  Chuck said my Dad started RUNNING down the hall like a little kid.  I can actually imagine my dad running down the hall but picturing it still makes me laugh.  I wish I could have seen that.  Everyone was so exhausted but they awaited the arrival of this precious little girl.  So many loved her already.
The doctors rounds started very early the next morning probably only giving me about 3 more hours of sleep (a total of 6 in 2 days).  First Loralei's pediatrician and then my OB doctor.  She opened the door and said, "I am SO MAD at you!  I can't believe you had her and didn't wait on me."
Since the day Loralei was born she is a strong willed little girl.  You can't rush her into anything.  She was not going to forced out she made her entrance when she was ready.  My doctor said less than 5% of babies come naturally on their due date.  I was so glad she came on her own.  I didn't want to induce.  I like the idea of her being born when God wanted her to be & having her own birthday and not one that was picked for her.
This past year has been more than blessed for me & Chuck.  Being parents makes you feel like a life is complete.
Loralei Marie Brewer was delivered at 2:33AM on Dec 30th, 2010.
She was 19 3/4in & weighed in at 7lbs 2oz.  (Darlene said Brad and Brooke made their way in there somehow....it was 27 backwards)

The hearbeat that changed our world....Part 1

One year ago today I had an early Dr appt w/ my OB.  We were scheduled to induce on Loralei's due date, Dec 30th.  I had been contracting for 2 days & was hoping she would go ahead and admit me.  However, I was only 2cm dilated & 90% ephased.  My Dr advised I go home and take some extra strength tylenol for the pain & try to get some rest before in the morning. I was a little disappointed b/c the contractions were only getting stronger. So, Chuck & I went home as instructed to endure the wait.....
When we got home I immediately took some tylenol for the pain & tried to lie down to get some rest.  I had probably only gotten 3 hours total the night before b/c the contractions had started and they kept me up.  So needless to say I was already tired but beginning stages of labor weren't allowing me any rest.  Chuck made sure I was ok and comfortable and went out back to burn some leaves.  I desperately tried to nap to no avail......the tylenol was not even slightly helping the increasing pain.  I constantly felt the need to pee as well. It was around 2:30 pm & I finally decided I wasn't getting any sleep so I got up to use the restroom.  IMMEDIATELY after using the restroom & without too many details labor had begun.  I could barely stand and it was not done without hanging on to the bathroom sink.  Chuck was still outside and at this point I am still confused as to what point I'm supposed to say "It's time!"  I called my Aunt Darlene, who has worked in the OB field for almost 20 yrs. She advised for us to head back to the hospital and asked what the status of my appt was this morning.  She told Chuck my water could possibly break on the way and to grab some towels. Labor was becoming so intense I could barely stand and I definitely could not stand upright.  Chuck grabbed our bags & loaded the truck as I dressed myself.  I finally made it to the truck & we were on our way.....


These were taken the morning before Loralei was born, Dec 29th.  Just before we headed to my last Dr Appt.

40 wks pregnant w/ Loralei Marie

September to Remember

I've decided that maybe a blog would be a good idea to help keep family and loved ones, near and far, up to date with us and mainly Loralei.  So, here it goes.....

September has definitely been one to remember.  Crazy busy, fun, sad & blessed.

We found out in Aug that we have a buyer for our house and the first initial closing was for Sept 9th.  So the previous weekend, Labor Day weekend, we spent laboring.  We managed to pack up the majority of our house and get it all out by Sunday (with a lot of help from friends & family) only to find out Sunday evening that the closing date has been delayed.  It is now Sept 29th and after 3 delays we are set to close tomorrow morning....here's hoping this one sticks!

We have found a wonderful new home that seems to be a nothing short of God's guidance.  It's a foreclosure that is basically brand new.  It was built in 2006 and the best part is that it seems to be perfect for our family.  No updates are needed, the yard is beautiful and better than we could have asked for, great neighborhood etc.....Not only is the house great but it's across the lake from my Aunt & Uncle, a couple of streets from where our best friends, The Owenby's, just moved into their new home & come to find out, it's on the same street as a close friend of mine that I've grown up with since kindergarten.  We feel very blessed in what God has given us.

Loralei.....This has been quite a month for her too.  She started crawling and is EVERYWHERE!  She loves going through the empty house in her walker and also likes opening cabinets & closing them, opening & closing.....you get the point.  She also said her first word and it was "MAMA!!!!!!"  This occurred when she was sick for the first time.  She caught a fever virus that is going around the weekend of  the 9th and wasn't feeling too well.  When her fever was down she would play like normal so she was running around in her walker and when her fever would spike she was extremely clingy to her Mama.  She wouldn't even let her Daddy hold her.  We were all in the kitchen and she started fussing.  She stuck her hand out and made the "get me" motion that she does when she wants something...in this case, me.  She then looked at me and in her fuss went, "MMMMM...MMMMMA......MMMMAAAA MMMMAAAAA"  Chuck and I both just looked at each other and he said, "Well, it doesn't get any clearer than that"  It def made my heart smile.
She has also cut 2 more teeth this month, one top & one bottom.  Giving her a total of 6 teeth.  This girl is going to have a million dollar smile by her first b'day at this rate.
She is really coming into her own little personality.  She is such a happy baby!  She has started laughing in response to our laughter and it makes us all laugh harder.  Her favorite toy is....BELLA.  She loves to pet her and play ball w/ her.  They each grab an end of the string attached to the ball and tug.  Bella doesn't always realize she has to be gentle with her tugs...Loralei has had a couple bumps on the floor b/c of this but she gets over it fast & is right back to playing.
She also had her first Alabama tailgating experience, complete w/ a picture with Big AL himself.  She did great.  She looked like a little cheerleader and got to meet all of our tailgating family.

The saddest & most heartbreaking part of this month is the passing of our eldest four legged child, Baxter.
About a month ago Chuck came in and said he thought Baxter might have heartworms


For the soul of EVERY living thing is in the hand of God.
Job 12:10

We miss him dearly.....There's not another one like him.